As a mentor, it is very important your pay attention to individual differences among humans. You can't generalize everything and expect to have impact. One of the keys of becoming a healthy mentor is to pay attention to individual differences in people. Using animals as examples, what a lion appreciate is different from what a monkey will appreciate. So are humans, our individual temperament determines the way we perceive things. We have four different human temperaments wired in every human blood. Make your research, learnt and understand the right approach for each of your mentee. Comparing one person to another will fight your mentee instead of helping them. Each of your mentee is unique in their individual capacity. The capacity of learning among them is different. Some are low learners and some are fast learner while some don't even need supervision. They can engage in self learning. So, relate with each of your mentee according to their capacity. Don't generalize your

Mentoring Zone: Every thing God has committed into your care must be trained and cultivated in other for you to function in God's Glory. You need a mentor who will stretch you, train you, and encourage you to constantly become the best daily. There is some one that already have the answers to the questions you are struggling with right now. There is some one that already have solutions to the problems you are struggling to solve. Some one have conquered what you are fighting yet to be conquered. Identify this person and submit to mentorship. Self absorbed mentality or pride will cause you more pain and struggles. Every great man is some one that acknowledged he or she needs help, and this individual was able to identify, who is holding the answers to their questions, and then yielded for mentorship. Irrespective of God's personal dealing with you, there is still a room for God to use humans to share their knowledge and experience with you, as a sign of hope that you can be bett