To become whosoever God has created you to become, you must develop the attitude of questioning every thing that's surrounding you.  All the norms you have accepted as true. All you call your principles, it time to test them all over again.  Because your mum, teacher and the society says so doesn't mean it is right. *On whose judgement was it declared perfect  for your life?*   Please, examine all you have embrace and all your have learnt. Don't be blinded by the trust you have for the people that trained and taught you most of the things in life.  It's time to re-examine your believes, your values and your priority.  Because you met every body doing it doesn't mean it's what you need to fulfill destiny. Because your parents and family member believe and practice it doesn't mean it will help your destiny.  Open your heart to God and test all you have believed, your values, priorities and norms with the Word of God and with the Holy

I need you to give attention to this. Every ministry has a pattern and specifications. Your specification and pattern will be determined by the clarity of the vision or assignment God has given you. No body own a vision, it's the vision that owns you and dictate what you ought to do and not to do. Daily seek to understand the pattern God has designed for his work in your hand. Ministry is not about success or achievement. Ministry is about accurate obedience to Gods instruction at the right time. Your bible study and prayer points ought to be dictated by the clarity of the vision God has given you. This is and will be in future the basic for your personal relationship with the Lord. I mean, a personal relationship with the Holy Spirit. Never you value the people more than the vision. The vision is to the people, for the people and must stay with the people. What God has given you is bigger than you So play your part well as you prepare to hand over to the successor the Lord