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Mentorship is not Control

Mentorship is not about control; it is about contribution. It is recognizing that God has drawn strength, wisdom, and experiences out of you, not for you to keep, but to share with others. When you mentor someone, you are taking what God has worked in your life and using it to strengthen the areas where they feel weak or uncertain. This is not about making them a copy of you; it is about equipping them to become the best version of who God has called them to be. One of the greatest lies about mentorship is thinking it is a position of superiority. In truth, mentorship is a service—a responsibility to pour into someone else without insecurity or selfishness. Your victories, your lessons, and even your scars can become roadmaps for someone else’s journey. When you help them avoid the mistakes you made, you are saving them time, pain, and unnecessary detours. That is what makes mentorship an act of love and humility. The ultimate goal of mentorship is effectiveness in the field of assignm...