A Judge or A Friend?

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Beloved! 

Insecurity is what makes you to be suspicious of your friends  and lovers. 

When you begin to look for what is not missing, you will live with unsettled mind. When you are looking for some thing you are not meant to look for, you will surely see some thing you are not suppose to see. 

When you put laws in to your hands and trust in your own wisdom without God, you might achieve result for some time. The truth is that you will fail so bad when you depend on Your  self. 

Give! 
Love! 
Forgive! 

Reconciliation is the only foundation that can help you build a healthy relationship.  

Reconcile, redefine terms and be clear of your expectation. 

Voice out with wisdom. The fact that some one made a mistake doesn't mean you are better than that person. You are here because God kept you - so let you boast  be in The Lord who has kept you. 

The fact you succeeded doesn't mean those that failed, are inferior to you! 

Don't suspect any body and if you are disturbed about any thing; ask questions and deal with the issue. 

They are good enough for you, are you good enough for them? 

You are good enough for them but are they good enough for you?   

If you are in their shoes, how will you want people to treat you? 

Compassion is the prove of forgiveness and reconciliation. If you haven't seen people as victim of their own ignorance, you will never learn the act of forgiveness and reconciliation. If your heart has no compassion, you will end up pushing away people that will help you in future just because they made a mistake today! 

Are you my judge or you are my friend? 

Are you their judge or you are their friend? 

Think! 

Think!     

Shalom!

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